Being home alone is nothing new. Hundreds upon thousands of people prefer living this way, although not all of them are sure why. When that occurs, being alone at home, even with all the usual fun self-established activities, the loneliness hits. Not all people value the necessity of being social. Most of us don’t have that many real friends(admit it!). Most of us are also smart enough to realize that socializing with random people is only a temporary solution.
Life goes through different stages. We make friends and we lose friends, that’s the nature of progress. There’s a problem. Living alone means something. It often suggests no boyfriend/girlfriend, unstable relationship with the family, which only leaves the possibility of good relations with good friends. But even that has a downfall. You can’t always hold friends on a leash. They have dreams too and for that they must go elsewhere, leaving you lonely and wondering.
From here on, there’s only a couple of ways out. The first is to recognize the stage that you are in. For instance, are you a student, graduate, working, on an internship? Maybe that’s the reason for your solitude. It’s best you figure it out quickly. From that point, think about if making new friends where you currently are is worth it, possible or necessary. In general, making friends is always worth it and possible. Assess your options.
Discover what you like about the location that you are currently at. Associate the surroundings with your favourite activities and practice them indeed alone. It may or may not help, although this is something you will do with love, which is far better than nothing. Search for people that might share the same kind of compassion for these activities as you do. This is how new connections are being established at best. The other way, known to mould strong relationships is sharing tough situations with another.
Besides the numerous objects that can be found in each domestic environment, being able to come up with something amusing is a self-taught ability. If you don’t make it work for you from a younger age, perhaps this is the time to start doing so. If you recall the things you’ve been through, there is a slight chance to provoke interest for appreciation in you, which can be all the boost you need to come up with something amusing. Just remind yourself of the old days, past achievements that have been your handiwork. Think back all the way to the countless days spent in school, how you achieved a new victory for your home, using removals at London. Recall your experiences outside the city, otherwise outside your current location. All this is done in attempts to restore appreciation for the little that accomplished by you. What do you think of doing now?
