Once a certain age comes to pass, we have to learn how to be independent. That’s easier said than done. Usually, to be given independence walks hand to hand with a serious and rather unpleasant talk with the parents. The reason this turns our in such a way is because the child can not be a child any more. It has to be welcomed to the real world, where competition is everything.
It’s true how tough this change can be. Generally, the entire happening follows a pattern. The child engages in a tough conversation with its parents. They try to find the best way to say what they have to say but the child will always be in denial. In the following months, this child will undergo major changes in the way it sees its surrounding world. Once the tough part is over, it’s basically done. Instinct for self-preservation takes over.
The end result appears to be successful…or is it? In the process of freeing this sense of self-preservation, there have also been a lot of personal changes in relation to a specific number of people. Try your guess, best out of three, although you’ll only need one. The parents that once were are no longer considered a supporting unit. More than that, any friends that have participated will be judged, based upon whether they’ve helped or not. Those that haven’t will be rejected, possibly for life.
It’s close to reason that confusion is the number one enemy in this case. You can’t fight against someone you don’t see. Without a doubt, getting used to the difficulties of understanding that the world is always against you succeeding, that competition exist everywhere, even where you sleep, can be no less than time spent in the dirt. While all these words may seem scary, remember that if the worst possible situation, like the one we described, was actually applied, there is no reason to keep pushing for more suffering.
It might just be that your friends and your parents want to give you the best possible start on your journey to independence. Help is anything but scarce. For starters, the capital city in the UK is supported by moving services in London, just as any other one of the major cities. The parents might also have an accommodation in mind already. Using your connections to facilitate the growing phases of your child is a method applied since humanity began its existence.
Once we put the unpleasant part of becoming independent aside, nothing beets the joy of having your own personal space for you and no one else. Possibly, the only inconvenience that has to be dealt with is keeping the noise down for the neighbours, which by itself is not always mandatory. They might as well be cool people, it’s a chance. Have it this way. The place is yours. Any and all childish dreams that you had will now come true.
